Reawakening.
I think its been about 3+ years since my last posting... I think I was really challenged by the deep sharing of two of my small group members yesterday night to re-explore how my spiritual/life thinking in written format used to be so formative in my walk with God... and now... well its been 3+ years and a lot has changed since then...
general updates - finished my undergraduate degree, finished my masters degree, attained my Chartered Accountancy professional designation, moved to Vancouver, got married, moved jobs 3x in the past 1.5 years.... and that just about sums up the past 3 years..
As I reflect upon who I've become since those university days, I cannot say that I'm fully satisfied with where things are today. Some things are great - some things are just... stagnant..
In terms of the stagnant things... #1 - Bible readings. This has kind of been the unspoken white elephant in my life over the past 3 years... if someone outright verbally called me out on this or challenged me, I'ld have a whole handful of excuses ready to fire back which at the end of the day can be summed up with the word LAZINESS. Why have I become such a lazy person? I can be very passionate about certain areas of my life (i.e. family, church, work, etc... okay, maybe not work haha)... but why is it that when it comes to God, one of my largest flaws really shines clear?
So... I feel really challenged to start doing something about it - setting some goals - setting up some new habits, setting up some more accountability.
I'm going to start using this new devotional that my Mom gave me a few weeks ago. I think what's crippled my Bible reading is that for me, Bible reading on its own (with no commentary, corresponding devotional, group directed Bible study questions) doesn't impact me the way it should. The Word of God is living and breathing and is the sword of Truth - so its about time I allow God to speak to me without my laziness getting in the way.
anyways, the great thing about this devotional - unlike others ... its not 100% just theological and your'e left to really push yourself to digest it, and analyze it, and ask questions yourself about it... its not 100% storybook with little spiritual content where you're left not thinking at all about what you've just read... its got good grounding - a long bible passage embedded with a series of thought provking challenging questions - and a really heart felt prayer ... a prayer that one could not pray without really realizing the impact of the words lest they be called a hypocrite.
so... starting small - that's the goal :) ODB in the morning when I turn on my computer - small prayers throughout the day - and this new devotional at night.
I want to be transformed.
posted by ~*~VaNeSsA~*~ -- 4:20 p.m. (1) comments
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Death and Dying - I need your prayer!
As many of you know, my auntie rebecca is in her final days on earth... i just got off the phone with my mom for the past hour and a half.. and all i want to do is break down and cry.... not the fact that she is dying, but because of the massive spiritual warfare that is attacking my family left, right and centre...
i don't even know where to start...
death... makes people do irrational things... death scares people... death frightens people.. death is something to be feared for many because that's all there is to life... for my uncle, death is the ultimate enemy... as he believes in no life after death.. no eternity... no heaven.. no hell.. no God... no faith.. no hope... when you live a life like this.. what else is there, but to keep oneself from dying?
since he believes in this, the only thing he can do within his own power (and not by God's) is to turn to the darker forces (feng shui, tui la, Buddhism, mysticism, chanting, etc...) to heal my aunt... this is his last resort... Western medicine shows that she is in palliative care (i.e. meaning.. she's not going to get better, she's going to die, all western doctors can do for her now is to alleviate some of her pain, but the end is near)... Chinese medicine shows that she is incurable (chinese medicine acknowledges they cannot fight brain cancer).... so does that "natural therapist/feng shui" work? apparently.. that retarded therapist has 100% guaranteed that my aunt will be healed from her lung and brain cancer.... so in order for this to happen, she must surrender herself to the therapist (and NOT GOD), not allowed to see any Chinese and western doctors, no brain scans, no medicine, no poor feng shui, and a very very restrictive diet (no wheat, no meat, no dairy, restricted veggies, restricted fruits, no Chinese medicine, no medicine.. the list goes on and on.... )... and on top of that, some really weird (and not medically proven) "natural pushing techniques" on certain areas of her body...
okay.. so i can buy that some of the natural therapy will work to release tension in your body, at certain pressure points, bla bla bla.. but to cure cancer? hell no! and WTH is up with those therapists attributing all the really bad side effects (i.e. dizziness, lost consciousness, no appetite, loss of verbal abilties, weakness, can't stand, can't walk, can't talk, massive pains, constant vomiting) to the therapy working to get rid of her toxins which they say is a great thing... when really, its just making her die quicker.... in more pain too... so if she ever has a good day, the therapists attribute all that to the therapy working.. and they won't even let her see any doctors, or even get a brain scan to see if the brain tumors got bigger or smaller.. or let her get any blood work done to see if she's horribly deficient in the necessary nutrients... and they also add all this stupid feng shui stuff to it..
ugh.. i get so frustrated and sad and really just plain heartbroken healing of how my uncle and other members of my family are buying into all this crap.. into the lies, the deception.. and really, they've made an idol out of this natural therapist..
I re-iterate the words of my mom's last email to me:
"Our God is a jealous and holy God, He hates idolatry.
This alternative therapist has become an idol in their lives, they are treating everything He says as the absolute truth and following it blindly as if He is GOD.
I can only pray for God's mercy and grace ,that God will not judge them but deliver them from this deception and bring healing and peace to their mind, body and spirit."
I think of those Old Testament days, back when the Israelites rebelled against God.. and they turned to false idols and other forms of worship of false gods... and what did God do? He punished them, for he is a holy and just God. I feel as if my family is in for it as they are turning far far away from Him... my uncle is a non-believer, so that complicates everything...
i hear my mom share about what my auntie rebecca needs... which is love... i think they say it is scientifically proven that when cancer patients feel loved and in return not stressed, they have a higher chance of fighting the cancer... i almost cried today as my mom shared about how love-less certain family members are towards her... and how it hurts her, how she doesn't smile when certain family members are around.. and that really just breaks my heart... in one's dying moments, people need to be re-assured that they are loved, not only by people, but by God Himself!
In one's dying moments, people need to know and believe fervently that there is no fear in death... that Christ's death on the cross conquered the death in our lives... that dying on earth is only a necessary and joyous step pathway towards meeting forever with God and being with Him in heaven for the rest of eternity where there is no suffering... that God is a loving God, that He is not cruel, that He cares for all of our needs, that He is our source of strength.. that He gives hope to the lost, that He is Sovereign and Lord over all (even death!), that He is more powerful than anything or anyone on this earth, that He is the beginning and he is the end, that He's woven each step of our lives which is unfolding second by second of His plan for our lives... that HE HAS CONQUERED DEATH!
I am ready for my aunt to die... I actually would prefer her to die sooner so that she can be with God sooner, instead of suffering here on earth, instead of being tempted by satan to lose faith in Him in her dying moments... I really desire for her to be close to God again in her final days so that the love, the eternal joy, the hope, and the power of God can transform her life even as she is about to die...
please pray for our family... esp for my non-believing uncle who makes all the decisions about my aunt's condition now so that he can be convicted by God to turn away from the false prophets who bring false hope of healing for the cancer... for my non believing relatives so that they would not be fooled by the deception of the therapist, and for my believing relatives, especially my parents are they are in HK now so that they can be a strong and bold witness and ambassador of Christ as they pray over and watch over my aunt.
It is in God's hands. Praise God from whom all blessings flow. Praise Him all creatures here below, Praise Him above the heavenly hosts, Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.
Amen.
posted by ~*~VaNeSsA~*~ -- 9:22 p.m. (0) comments
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
5 Months Later...
what has happened since the last time i logged in? lots =)
- completed masters
- studied intensely for a month for the UFE
- wrote the UFE
- flew to HK/Japan for a month long vacation
- spent a week in TO with Alexis
- started work at KPMG
what's still to come?
- lots of work events in the next month and work training events
- finding out the UFE results on Dec 5
- holiday season
where am i now?
1) figuring out where is my spiritual community - kainos/barnabas/rhccc/elsewhere?
i guess after having a lack of spiritual community for the past, well 2 years almost.. (since the end of 3B term in loo), its about time to go purposefully seek spiritual community... i'm determined this time around...
i'm still so lost tho... the kainos fellowship at rhccc, well it seems catered towards more younger university students (nothing against that), but i'm at a different stage of life now... doesn't quite seem to fit and its not quite challenging enough in a spiritual growth sense...
the barnabas fellowship at rhccc, hahah well i'm definitely the youngest one by far by about 5 years hahahha its quite a change from being the oldest to being the youngest.. but that's okay :) i like getting to know people older than me with more experience to share... its been a struggle to initiate deeper conversations.. the atmosphere is quite intimidating in an unwelcoming sense.. but i've got to give it more chances, i've only been there twice...
well.. how about rhccc in general? i've kept this decision looming in the back of my mind for the past... 5 years!~ haahah sad... but true... is this where God wants me? it's a big church, +4K people attending on any given Sunday... multiple services, its easy to get lost in the crowd... every previous work term back home, has been a struggle, but i've always thought, it's okay, i'll be back to watelroo within a few short months, just hang in there and things will get better... now that i'm back for good, and no plans to leave toronto in the next few years, this is the time to re-evaluate, or evaluate rather, what makes a Church...
when do you decide you need to find a new Church?
the Church is His body of believers, united through our faith in God...there cannot be anything in this world that can break that bond of believers...
then, why leave?
you've heard the phrase "church shopping", its the honest truth of the matter... where is the line drawn between church shopping and finding spiritual community/growth/feeding/service?
i'm not going to complain/critique rhccc, i have my beliefs that have been built and refined over hte past 5 years of attending rhccc... and as the months progress, and June hits, i'll be in a whole new situation with Alexis moving over and a new perspective.... one where we need to be looking for a Chruch and spiritual community together and a place to settle down together... where?
only God knows... even though i am rather confused and lost about all this.... i can't help but think that in the mysteriousness of His will, it comes hand in hand with His insurmountable power, His eternal Sovereignty... and by that, it reveals just how amazing He is... He always reminds me that He works for good of those who love Him... and so, admist all the unanswered questions, there is peace.... and contentment even tho i yearn for His will to unfold in my life... kind of an oxymoron... but that's life :)
posted by ~*~VaNeSsA~*~ -- 7:34 p.m. (0) comments
Saturday, June 14, 2008
Rightly Taught and Disciplined
I was reading the 2nd chapter of the Richard Foster book i'm reading now.. and i loveeeeed this quote.... to provide some context, Foster is talking about the fact that believers can be called into positions of power, wealth, and influence.. but in order to do so, we have to be "rightly taught and disciplined"... this is his explanation on what it means to be rightly taught and disciplined -->
"We need instruction on how to possess money without being possessed by money. We need help to learn how to own things without treasuring them. We need the disciplines that will allow us to live simply while managing great wealth and power."
so true!
posted by ~*~VaNeSsA~*~ -- 9:50 p.m. (0) comments
Saturday, June 07, 2008
Money - God's ownership, not ours
here's an excerpt from the book i'm reading now by Richard Foster - The Challenge of the Disciplined Life - Christian Reflections on money, sex, and power
"We badly need a conversion in our understanding of ownership. Perhaps we need to stamp everything in our possession with the reminder "Given by God, owned by God, and to be used for the purposes of God." We need to find ways to remind ourselves over and over again that the earth is the Lord's, not ours."
i think personally, this is smthg that I haven't thought about in a longgg time... it's a simple truth, yet i think it's hard to live out...i think of all the things i own (car, clothes, school stuff, money, etc) and really, how often do i consciously remember that it is given by God, owned by God, and to be used for God's purposes? It's hard... i think it definitely brings a different perspective on going shopping as i love to do... and also on the things i own...
it was also very interesting...cuz Richard Foster also said that in order to act upon the biblical call to faithfulness wrt our money, we need to understand with feelings that have shaped our understanding of money. One of these things he mentioned was that "by a conscious act of the will, let us stop denying our wealth."
i like Foster, he's very straight-forward, to the point, and he hits you hard with truths...
he's advised us to stop comparing our own wealth to others like ourselves, so that we can claim comparative poverty, but rather we should become world citizens, looking at ourselves i relation to all humanity..
more from Foster -->
random stat --> those who own a home are among top 95% wealthy people in the world
he goes on to list a bunch of other things, like the fact that altho we have a difficult time balancing our own budgets, we are among the very wealthy..
"but please note that this is not intended to make us feel guilty; it is intended to help us capture an accurate picture of the real situation in the world. We are wealthy. The very fact that we have leisure time to read a book or watch television means that we are wealthy. We do not need to be ashamed of our wealth or try to hide it from ourselves and others. It is only as we admit our wealth and quit trying to run from it that we are in a position to conquer it and use it for God's purposes."
sooo interesting eh? as i typed that quote above, it really brings to light my own personal wealth situation... i'm in my Masters of Accounting, gonna write my UFE in Sept and hopefully get my CA, will be making good money once i graduate... in addition, i remember so many times, especially during the few beginning years of university..i was actually ashamed to bring people to my house because I didn't want people to know of my family's wealth and I didn't want people to view me differently as a "rich, spoiled girl"... little did i realize that in doing so, i was inadvertently trying to hide my wealth... which is exactly what Foster is warning us not to do!
i think today's readings have been a very good reminder to conquer my ashamed attitude towards my wealth and now step forward to use it for God's good purposes.
the past few months, God has been shaping me and challenging me to give more to church, to charities, to friends going away on missions, to my sponsor kids, etc... and i think the missing link that now i've come to grips with is really admitting my wealth. Thanks God =)
posted by ~*~VaNeSsA~*~ -- 5:56 p.m. (0) comments
Sunday, June 01, 2008
God of Justice (Tom Hughes)
"God of Justice, Saviour to all
Came to rescue the weak and the poor
Chose to serve and not be served
Jesus, You have called us
Freely we've received
Now freely we will give
We must go live to feed the hungry
Stand beside the broken
We must go
Stepping forward keep us from just singing
Move us into action
We must go
To act justly everyday
Loving mercy in everyway
Walking humbly before You God
You have shown us, what You require
Freely we've received
Now freely we will give
Fill us up and send us out
Fill us up and send us out
Fill us up and send us out Lord"
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i heard this song for the first time at church today and i really really like the words... it hink it really captivates what God has been speaking to me recently.. i think the chorus is so simple, yet so profound..... so genuine... very honest.. seeking to be used by and for the Lord.
--> We must go live to feed the hungry
Stand beside the broken
We must go
Stepping forward keep us from just singing
Move us into action
We must go
it is my prayer, move me into acion and go do the work of God.